Saturday, April 28, 2007

A Dog's Attitude

Friday was a good day: I got the magenta tray at the cafeteria.

The cafeteria in our building at work has lots of gray and yellow trays, some brown ones, and a few blue ones, but there is only one magenta tray. Since pink is my favorite color, I always hope that I will get that tray, and when I do, I really enjoy it.

Maybe if you're reading this, you're thinking, "What's the big deal about what color your cafeteria tray is?" True, it's not a big deal. But I like to take pleasure in all sorts of little things. Savoring them makes my day more enjoyable.

The other day I once again came across a line in The Fellowship of the Ring that I really like. Gandalf the wizard has just told the hobbit Sam that he is going to accompany Frodo on his journey, which means that Sam will get to see Elves, something he's always longed to do.

"Me, sir!" cried Sam, springing up like a dog invited for a walk.

I love the image because it immediately conveys a great deal of excitement. Yet when we think about it, what are dogs so excited about? Just a walk! But they get a great deal of pleasure out of it.

My dog Hana waits every morning for me to sit down with my bowl of cereal, because she knows I will give her two pieces of it. It's only two pieces of cereal, usually Cheerios, so not a big deal, but to her it's a very happy moment.

Dogs are optimists, too. Every time I prepare a meal, Hana thinks, despite the mountain of previous experience, that this time, maybe the meal is going to be for her. And her tail is almost always ready to wag; she expects good things out of life.

I think that we can learn a lot from dogs' attitude. With God as our father, we can expect good things out of life, too. That's not to say that everything will always be rosy. But we can know that he is with us and will see us through any hard times. I found this out a year ago as I was going through cancer. God didn't make the cancer magically disappear, but he did sustain me as I underwent surgery, chemo, and radiation. I knew that in the long run, whatever the prognosis (mine ended up being good), God was going to be there in the end.

And then there were those little things, like the magenta cafeteria tray. God put a lot of them in my life, and when I looked for them, I found them. Things like the kindness of fellow co-workers, or a daffodil that the radiation oncology center gave me. It made a big difference to how I experienced a year of cancer treatments. I could have looked for the unpleasant, difficult things, or I could have just not looked for anything. But instead I looked for the little fun or nice things, and they were there to be found, and so my days were more pleasant and enjoyable than they might otherwise have been.

What's more, because I found those little good things, I was able to give thanks to God. I knew he was there helping me get through a bad time. In fact, I felt his presence more closely during that cancer year than I ever had before. That in itself brought joy to me beyond what I can describe.

I know it sounds silly to say I had a good day because I got the magenta tray at the cafeteria. But I have a fun life. And a lot of it is because I take pleasure in the little things.

6 comments:

Rob Harrison said...

Reminds me of a song I love by one of my favorite singer/songwriters, the very underappreciated Bob Bennett, "Small Graces." In point of fact, you got it stuck in my head, so I had to walk back over to the house and get the lyrics:

Sometimes they slip by without notice;
Sometimes they're very hard to see.
Other times it's all so clear
When they're happening to me.

Bright penny on the sidewalk,
Can't buy nothin' by itself;
But when I hold it in my hand
It's a tiny piece of priceless wealth.

These are the small graces,
Little moments when the miracles come.
These are the small graces,
Small graces leading me to the larger ones.


A smile that is not automatic,
That lingers on a little more
Than the time it takes to count my change,
The time it takes to close the drawer.

Chorus

Small graces surely have a meaning
Beyond their merely passing by;
They are a reminder to the heart
There's more to life than meets the eye.

Cheerful greetings unexpected
Shared by strangers on the run,
For when the sky is clouded over
Still the promise of the sun

Is in the small graces,
The little moments when the miracles come.
These are the small graces,
Small graces pointing me to the larger ones.

Small graces,
Little glimpses of the kingdom come
From unexpected places--
These are the small graces.


Thanks, Debbie.

Anonymous said...

One of the best prayers I've read goes like this:
"Lord, help me to be the kind of person my dog thinks I am"

Anonymous said...

Debbie,
You and Rob and Jon,
Are reminding me of a little book of animal prayers a professor at Fuller would read from sometimes for a devotion. It is called, Prayers from the Ark by Carmen Bernos de Gasztold.
The one for the Dog is:

Lord,
I keep watch!
If I am not here
who will guard their house?
Watch over their sheep?
Be faithful?
No one but You and I
understands
what faithfulness is.
They call me. "Good dog! Nice dog!"
Words...
I take their pats
and the old bones they throw me
and I seem pleased.
They really believe they make me happy.
I take kicks too
when they come my way.
None of that matters.
I keep watch!
Lord,
do not let me die
until, for them,
all danger is driven away.

And now to ruin all that I just have to add the prayer of the cat:

Lord,
I am the cat.
It is not, exactly, that I have something to ask of You!
No--
I ask nothing of anyone--
but,
if You have by some chance, in some celestial barn,
a little white mouse
or a saucer of milk,
I know someone who would relish them.
Wouldn't You like someday
to put a curse on the whole race of dogs?
if so I should say

Two different theologies I think?

Douglas Underhill said...

And now for something different...

I agree completely. I think its incredibly powerful when we decide what is going to constitute a good day or a bad day. Some isn't up to us, but a lot is.

Ta'fxkz said...

Thanks for posting this

pilgrim said...

hey i loved reading it :) One of our dogs isn't too well and yet she decided to run around n be goofy even when it made her stagger because she loves the rain (she n i share quite a few likes and dislikes ;D)